Martin Paulsen Mende was the son of Jacob Mende and Margaretha Dorothea (née: Plat(en)).
They were from Enge.
Martin married Anke Paulsen. Her father was Niß Paulsen, her mother Sieke (née: Carstensen).
They were from Enge too.
As some endings (genitives) or details might be wrong, others might want to add corrections... I have never heard "Niß" and "Sieke" before; those are probably names common in northern Germany.